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i’ve got a question on dating someone help me please?
28th October 2007
amanduh_616 asked:
this dude says he likes me.. u know that hot rod type that loves working on cars…. he owns his own bisuness, has enough money, and says he likes me…okay so heres the thing, he keeps telling me he likes me but( yeah theres a but) he keeps telling me that he wont be my boyfriend until he has time… hes working on four jobs (all restoration jobs on old cars one his own that has to be ready for that beginning of april), that are taking up his ‘time”, mind u im at his shop every weekend helping him with whatever he needs and i am never there when he doesnt ask me to come over…. i dont know if hes just saying that he has to have time for me or he just doesnt want to be with me but only wants sex, which is every weekend… or maybe he really needs that time, cause his mom says he loves me he just doesnt want to tell me and he bought me almost a thousand dollars worth of things(including a one of a kind $800 purse when he went to vages) but (yes another but) he never really says he misses me and he keeps having an ex-girlfriend that keeps callin…so the questions are does he really like me? should i just keep waiting even though ive waited 3 months? or what just give me some advise someone please…
Dominick
this dude says he likes me.. u know that hot rod type that loves working on cars…. he owns his own bisuness, has enough money, and says he likes me…okay so heres the thing, he keeps telling me he likes me but( yeah theres a but) he keeps telling me that he wont be my boyfriend until he has time… hes working on four jobs (all restoration jobs on old cars one his own that has to be ready for that beginning of april), that are taking up his ‘time”, mind u im at his shop every weekend helping him with whatever he needs and i am never there when he doesnt ask me to come over…. i dont know if hes just saying that he has to have time for me or he just doesnt want to be with me but only wants sex, which is every weekend… or maybe he really needs that time, cause his mom says he loves me he just doesnt want to tell me and he bought me almost a thousand dollars worth of things(including a one of a kind $800 purse when he went to vages) but (yes another but) he never really says he misses me and he keeps having an ex-girlfriend that keeps callin…so the questions are does he really like me? should i just keep waiting even though ive waited 3 months? or what just give me some advise someone please…
Dominick
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he’s a playuh drop him sersly you’ll feel like a hooker if you stay with him right
Comment by i like otterpops — October 29, 2007 @ 4:22 am
If he loves you, he would be willing to call you his girlfriend….sounds like he just wants ***.
Comment by bored — October 29, 2007 @ 12:33 pm
He’s just using you.
Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?
Make yourself a lot less available to him. Maybe date someone else for a week or two.
That should either make him come around to realizing he wants to be your boyfriend or you’re too good for him.
Either way, you’ll find out the truth.
And, the truth shall set you free.
Comment by daguk — October 31, 2007 @ 5:57 am
Well, he obviously cares about you to spend almost a grand on you…
But, just talk to him and straighten everything out. That would be the best. Any question you have, lay them out on the table and get everything taken care of. Hope this helped!
Comment by UA — November 2, 2007 @ 8:47 am
Give the man some time… As long as you are getting what you need, HA HA. Then if in a few months that mo-fo don’t start gettin serious then dump his ***…
Comment by r4a2l0_1 — November 5, 2007 @ 4:52 am
I feel that the situation is still under your control…if till now you feel that he is not showing up….then follow ur heart…coz..every man wants to have a women who is always beside him ….but is should be reciprocated also to you….don’t be do dependent on him…make him feel that you don’t feel neglected…maybe stop visiting him for sometime..u will get ur way.
Comment by pd_mba2005 — November 6, 2007 @ 9:20 pm
Stop droppin’ your drawers every weekend and throw on the chastity belt.
Comment by Phillip Montgomery IV — November 9, 2007 @ 6:10 am
I think you should hang on.
If he is working on four jobs i don’t think he has been dipped into gold from the start and hes working hard.
Maybe he doesn’t want to start a relationship because he believes he would ignore you or supress you because of the time required by his work…
If he has bought you so much and he bought you a bag when he went to vegas…that means he does miss you…and he does think about you when hes away or doing something else.
You need to give him some time.
The biggest thing is…
He has talked to his mom about it and she’s aware of how much he cares about you.
Guys usually dont talk to their parents till they are serious.
Try and wait for sometime.
Comment by wicked — November 12, 2007 @ 2:45 am
hes a player, i know its easier for me to say than for you to do, but get rid of him. your gonna get hurt in the end.
good luck!
Comment by ׺°JeSi°º× — November 13, 2007 @ 2:56 pm
I’d say that he does like you seeing he is buying you all this stuff, obviously he is trying to impress you. Sometimes guys can keep their emotions to themselves because they are embarassed or think you might question how feminine they are. This might be the reason why he hasnt told you he likes you more. As for him saying he doesnt have time for you as a girlfriend, maybe he is worried that what you have going now will change if you two “get together”. By sounds of it I reckon he does like you but really doesnt want to give too much away.
I dunno if this will help at all
Comment by wonder why? — November 14, 2007 @ 7:45 pm
Trust me, He’s Just Not that Into You
Move on now to someone who will appreciate and love you for the remarkable person you are!
Comment by Mickey — November 16, 2007 @ 5:33 am